I enjoy a well-placed exclamation point.
In high school geometry class a friend and I had to do a presentation on how to find the surface area of various 3D shapes. Obviously, it was a pretty bland project. So what did I do? I convinced my friend to let me put an exclamation point on the title slide: Surface Area! It was a small gesture but it was my small attempt to make the tedium of math class a little more exciting.
I bought rice the other day and part of the cooking instructions read: “Remove from heat (with lid on!).” For some reason, this made me smile. It made cooking rice—another bland task—almost a little dramatic. What would happen if I took the lid off?!
Of course, it’s easy to go wrong with exclamation points. There’s that fine line between “enthusiastic” and “obsessed” that’s easily crossed when you decide it’s necessary to use exclamation points in four different instances in one email. You start sounding like maybe you’ve had a little too much caffeine—and maybe you have. Hello! How are you! Nice to hear from you! I was just wondering…! Thanks! Sincerely, Natalie!
I don’t know about you, but when I read something like that I’m likely to start slowly backing away from the computer screen. I don’t like feeling attacked by punctuation; it’s usually my friend. I will admit I’m probably a more frequent user of the exclamation point than most, but because I appreciate its value, I also appreciate the power of using it sparingly.
I think it’s a good skill to have to be able to use expressive punctuation well. (Of course, it’s not necessarily a priority.) An exclamation point done right exudes passion, hopefulness, and joy. Aren’t those feelings we’d all like to express?